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Originally Posted by ajay00
Imho, the focus should be on being lovable rather than compelling others to love oneself.
As Emerson said, " If you want a friend, be one. "
Love under the force of compulsion is not love, but a businesslike attachment. It is a conditional love that can easily become hatred as well.
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You really must understand intent. If you intend love to be business like then it will be so. If you intend it to be hatred then so it is. I intend, I will, love to be pure and healthy, and amazing. I intend it to be wondrous and satisfying for both. I dont intend anything negative in the mix.