Hello there,
I don't know a great deal about EFT, but what I do know, that in The Vortex, another book by Esther and Jerry Hicks. They say that until you can live the life that you desire, then you should pretend. Make believe you don't have any issues, fool yourself into thinking, you are already living your dream life style!
I think that noticing the problem that your having with EFT, is a wonderful thing to be aware of, but after you realize what your "problem" is, think the opposite, after all your the one with the power, so you give power to that "problem" that you think that you have.
Pretend and be happy.
Stay in the Vortex