I believe that you are reborn with a Life Plan/Blueprint of the lessons you want to learn, the experiences you want or need to experience and the time of your departure........ those who put themselves in the wrong place at the wrong time chose this to happen, for their own experience or the soul growth of others around them.... everything happens for a reason and there is a reason for everything.........IMO........there is no such thing as coincidence, accidents or miracles.........