As I understand it from reading many books, your loved ones still love you, still come around you and still take an interest in your life.

Yes, it is said that the spirit word is a wonderful place, but it doesn't mean that you are abandoned or not thought of by your loved ones any more.

I certainly do not believe that he will have any more special relationships over there than he had with you! You had a special and unique bond with him and that love is a taster of heaven on earth because of that love.

So don't get caught up in fear. You had a special bond with Matt and that can never be taken away. It still exists and will always exist. The bond of love exists so strongly even after physical death that they make a huge effort to come and speak to people on earth through gifted mediums.