Close friend of mine. Discovered this with me 13 yrs ago. He allowed it in but didn't give it full faith.

Year ago I pointed out him using it unconsciously. He wanted a house to rent a block away. His situation was bleak for him getting it but he would say "I can't wait till he have levels, she can be upstairs on her level and I'll stay down her on mine"

She like you but worse doubted a lot. Openly voiced it. Argued the things against them to get it. I joined in and said see if you were on your level this conversation between me and him wouldn't have been interrupted. What if the landlord knows someone you guys know. What if someone who's more qualified or all of them find better places? I can't wait till I can come over and raid the fridge and hang out with him without having you pee in our cherrios. This made them both laugh and they both said no stay away from the fridge! I said you won't even know. He's gonna be in the basement in his man cave playing Xbox and you're gonna be upstairs watching sappy romantic movies on my Netflix account. The snack cupboard will fall victim as well and no one will even know!!

She walked away laughing and still proclaiming that I won't get any food. He looked at me and pointed out how I got her to help attract them moving without her realizing it.

I regret having to help but I did help them move all their things a block down the road. And I raided the fridge during the move!

They also started packing prior to approval. She argued not packing and we both pointed out that sooner than later a move will take place no need to have the place lined up prior to packing.

This got her attracting the new place as she packed as well.