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Originally Posted by A human Being
A lot depends on how open the two people are, I think, I'm not a big one for lengthy preliminaries and small-talk if I'm being honest.
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Yes! That's it!
I am quite an open person, so asking questions come naturally to me, because I am open to respond to them as well.
I hate small talk, and especially when you are trying to know someone. Small talk is fine for a while, and banter, etc, but... we were there for over 3 hours!
It gets to a point where I really want to go a bit deeper and know more about the person rather than just what is their favourite food and music.
But, again, we're all different and I have to accept that other people are different.
I'm going on another date with him, and maybe another and another if we both want to, but I do hope he starts to open up after a while, otherwise it will show he's not ready for a relationship beyond the superficial.