[hallow]

Thank you very much! Its true in some ways i not a huge fan of traditions but i do understand there needed for most people. A way to remember and embrace certain events. The rigidity you mentioned is true but that's something i am working on. Unknowingly my wife is helping me on that one. Yup i am married and all is good there. I am a very unmaterialistic person almost a mimalist of sorts. Over the past 2 years there has been a shift in my way of thinking. More spiritual. At this point i know i am looking for something just don't know what. I am sure ill know when i do.