I understand all too well that it can be overwhelming at times, but you also have to look at the true purpose of the connection. If he is in a relationship then now is not the time for you two to be together no matter how much you might want it to be.

Twin souls can only make a relationship work successfully if they are entirely whole on their own. Under the underlying sense of urgency I see, I also see a touch of co-dependency which is not the purpose of this connection at all.

I want to be with my twin soul, but I don't have to be with him right this moment. If its in the cards for us to be together, it will fall into place when its meant to. And if its NOT meant to, nothing can force it to happen.

If its not time for you and your twin to be together, then maybe there are lessons you still need to learn.