[harleyquinn]

My advise would be to send him thoughts of love. He will receive them

I talk to him daily..normally out loud...sometimes silently. I have no idea if he hears me.... but it does sometimes help me....

IF there were any unresolved issues, any regrets about things done or undone, knowing there is peace and forgiveness will help him - and you - move on.

when i talk to him- i tell him how much i love him...so if he didn't know while he was here, hopefully he knows now

If there is a grave, maybe place some flowers, red roses perhaps. He is not there, no, but the act is symbolic and it will say the things you cannot say to each other in person.

no grave unfortunately...his mother had him cremated. I am going to take a trip to see his mom early next year..... she still considers me her daughter-in-law, so that helps me feel some sort of connection to him