We don't really know what's best for us, as we don't have a good perspective of our lives, circumstances, what the future will bring to us. This is why it's better to desire more general things, like a good marriage, a comfortable life, etc., than specific things, like marriage with X, wealth, etc..
Also, even a perfect relationship before marriage, will start showing up problems to work on. There is no exception! So, better don't push things too far when your relationship already shows problems (addiction, rejection, etc.).
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