Just a quick note of clarification: the guy in question is not pursuing my wife in any way; if anything, he seems to mostly distance himself from her. It is my wife's attraction to him that is the puzzle, not only for me, but for her as well.
Again, I am hoping that this will resolve in some relatively easy fashion, where we all gain a deeper understanding of ourselves. Surprisingly, as I think I have mentioned, it actually has led to a more open and intimate relationship between my wife and I.
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