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Originally Posted by lostsoul13
obsession I feel is unhealthy in love...even in thought..although an obsession in thought can propel us through its anxiety to reach a complete conclusion? Love is letting go even of the conclusion? Although,maybe being in unconditional love is acceptance of the need to 'control' which diminishes the 'obsession'? Therefore, maybe allowing the true nature to be brought forward without interfering through obsessive patterns, and tarnishing what could be?
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I think this is sage wisdom. I always experienced "obsession" as a lost connection to myself - the focus was too much on the other.
And given what is being said about the purpose of the TF relationship, we are asked to focus on our own healing and soul growth before we can be ready to engage in a TF relationship.