[Raziel]

Server issues mean that I had to wait to post this comment:

Perhaps when all is said & done you actually scared this man off - but not in the way that you may think.

Perhaps you made him feel vulnerable.

Maybe he felt a connection between you, intimacy, companionship & as a jack the lad/alpha male type he simply didn't have the maturity to handle it.

Instead of stepping into uncharted waters he fled back into the safety of his love em & leave em persona, either to repeat the cycle until he has to compete with younger men or he may begin to take stock of his conquests & wonder where it all leads.

Unless he one day beats down your door with roses in his had you are unlikely to benefit from any revelation that he may have but perhaps you have given him food for thought - somewhere in his mind that he will never be able to shake.

In this situation you were actually the prize - not him.

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