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Sometimes a deceased one can stay around for a little while after "death". This frequently happens in the case of animals and pets. Occasionally a person may choose to do the same. It is their free-will choice. This period of (time, as it appears to us) -can vary but often isn't very long. Their choosing to stay near loved ones, if it doesn't go on too long, is quite natural, and not always anything to worry about. They will move deeper into the Astral Worlds when they have finished something that meant a lot to them. Our pure unconditional love and awareness that they are OK will definitely help them continue in a natural way.
When a loved one dies, we grieve. That is also completely natural. We have lost our loved one as a physical presence in our lives, and miss them. Grieving is normal. However, it can block our "reception and transmission". Grief works like clouds that block out the sunlight. When we have processed the heavier parts of our grief, and have become a bit lighter emotionally, and are focusing more on the love for that person than the pain we are feeling, usually a time comes when we sense our loved ones, in one way or another. These might be quite subtle signs or impressions, or they might be really "in your face"!
Attunement to them will help clear the channels of communication. When we're in a mood of attuning quite closely with them, we are more likely to sense or feel them, or receive "signs" of one kind or another. It's interesting. Pray and send love from the Heart, and then let go gently, blessing their Soul. Then stand back a little and wait. Often an "answer" can be sensed within a few minutes or hours. That is them. They do indeed "hear" our love. It means so much to them. And it brings us so much joy and knowledge.
But there are times they seem "far away". Souls who pass on have to adjust to their new conditions and their new life in Spirit. We have to let them do this and not fret too much.
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