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Old 03-02-2020, 01:59 PM
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Shivani...

*sigh*.

This is ALL about projection but from opposite poles, it seems.
YOU were consciously projecting positive vibes -- a lovely act -- and were intentionally meeting him on the level of a beloved child of the Creator.
HE was likewise projecting his baseness onto you and hoping it would stick. He was "playing at" relating to you as a fellow human being whilst in fact he sought to meet you on the level of his base urges.

However as Miss H. said being a woman is typically a curse as far too many men will refuse to bring their consciousness up to their heart centre and above. They will too often refuse to relate to you from chakras (and mindsets) above the first few.

If you'd been a gent then he would have left you to eat your meal in piece after a brief hello.
But purely due to the fact that you happen to have the genitals and breasts he craves basely (as there's no love of your unique person by a total stranger in any meaningful sense)...
...then instead, he treated you like an animal -- albeit a talking animal.

What do you do when relating to such a pitifully limited individual, who's rather invasively propositioned you whilst you were trying to enjoy your Turkish food?
BTW...don't let him keep you from eating your local soul food -- that would be far too much to give over!!!

But I would simply say sth along these lines...that for you sex is about an authentic love of souls between committed partners and that otherwise you find it repulsive and unappealing I.e., being touched by the cold hand of a stranger is loathesome and unappealing. You are free to smile winsomely and bat eyelashes whilst getting this message across, if need be, so that they leave you in peace. I find the biggest blockheads will tend to get this sort of message, plainly stated. As you noted, even appealing to your religious beliefs didn't get through to that one.

Like, can you really make it any clearer? Hahahaha...This is who we are when we grow up...so please deal with it, eh?

Peace & blessings
7L
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