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Sometimes it may be a good idea to not let some people know of your dreams & aspirations.
For example if someone is often critical, or if they simply don't understand you, then it may be better to not tell them.
I have actually come across some people in my life, who share almost everything about their life to others, and then get upset when some people criticise them, or make fun, or don't believe them etc.
I mean it's good to be open and honest, but maybe sometimes be careful of who you tell-this may sound negative etc but in all honesty, we're dealing with human beings-from all walks of life, all belief systems, all different kinds of experiences etc-so we can't expect everybody we come across to see, or think, or be like us.
Maybe wait until you come across people you trust-and to be honest, the most perfect plan/ambition somebody can come up with, or think of carrying out will always have somebody who has to criticise.
As for critical people online, well there are all kinds of people online-often they're not even who they pretend to be.
It's easier to be nasty to somebody online, when you can hide your frustrations, insecurities and dissapointments etc from others.
Bear also in mind that those that criticise a lot-are always very unhappy with their lives, they do it to hide the negative aspects of themselves, that they don't want others to know about.
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