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Originally Posted by linen53
Hi WildHairedWoman.
One of my most prominent life lessons I had to learn in this life was about victimhood.
Getting out of my own pity party came in stages. Buy boy am I glad I learned that lesson.
Learning that I actually chose the bad things that happened to me this lifetime took the focus off of my perpetrators and put responsibility directly on me. They were merely the instruments to set the stage for my life lessons.
So far I get an A+.
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I SO BELIEVE WHAT YOU SAID! We CHOOSE our experiences, not always conciously, but due to our inner beliefs. I've tried to explain that to many kids, (I was a HS teacher) but a true victim doesn't want it to stop, they can't be a victim that way, LOL At the end of the day it is an attention seeking behavior. I always say: "Why do you hit yourself in the head with a hammer?" Because it feels SO GOOD when you stop!