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Old 12-08-2017, 10:33 AM
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I agree, read up on co-dependency and work on it.
Also, the more you try not to think about something, the more you are attracting it in your vibration. Like trying to not think about the elephant in the room. All you can think of is that wretched elephant in the room.
You may want to look up some clips on YouTube by Abraham Hicks on relationships and love of self and so on. He/she has great advice on how to deal with this sort of thing. Very uplifting and helpful.
What comes to mind immediately of what he/she says is, "you're trying to make them too big a part of your life (which then causes pain and so on)" and "The only relationship that really matters is the one between you and you."
That's not to diminish or knock your feelings, but to give you a somewhat different perspective. But I'm not Abraham, I cannot explain it as well, so really, look it up and listen to some of those wonderful clips!
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