I too wish your friend good luck. I too was shown(with excessive amounts of validity) who my tf/soulmate is. It's been close to 4yrs. and we still haven't met in person. I am married w/ kids and he has kids and has a partner, but has never married her. We have seen each other 2x, but I guess the "time wasn't right." I agonized over him, it ripped my life apart. I know now it came along with my spiritual awakening and I learned alot. I still think of him constantly. I think maybe I was being shown the future no matter how its going to work out. Now all my "signs and validity" have stopped. Its painful not to have that connection with my guides like I did. I believe it was a learning exp. and now i have to focus on another area in my life and see what happens.