[Adrienne]

hi ellespirit,

It is different for each person, in regards to dealing with grief and losing someone they love. Some people have longer grieving periods of time, some have shorter. Some people want to continue the communication after a person has passed over, some just let go.

I believe that if someone, your father for example, is still with you it is his choice to do so. I am not totally convinced on the idea that we are holding someone back, by wanting to communicate with them. Maybe this is not exactly what you mean with your questions ? In some cases, yes it is probably better to let go, if it is preventing you from living your life.

blessings,
Dream Angel xx

ps NS ~ speaking of " one foot here, one foot there "..... this is how I feel sometimes