Keiko...

In Jane Robert's "The Education of Oversoul 7", one of 7's students was an old woman who was determined to live life to the fullest and on her own terms. When she died, she decided to go looking for God. She quite forgot that her boyfriend had also died and was probably waiting for her. She went on her quest instead. Perhaps, your father is otherwise engaged and his attention is so intent on learning that you've been pushed back in his memory for a bit. BTW, I highly recommend the Oversoul 7 Trilogy (amazon has it).

Or perhaps he is still being taken care of. Robert Bruce also spoke of a hospital on the other side and has seen it.

http://www.astraldynamics.com/home/o...tal-visit.html

http://www.astraldynamics.com/home/o...pital-obe.html