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Originally Posted by (im)perfectdream1794
I guess this turned into more of a rant than anything else, but know there is some back story to be considered. Despite all this, I truly do have a big heart and a lot of love to give, and wish I could love him. I think what I'm really asking is if anyone has an opinion on whether we should stay apart or if we could make it work. If you read the whole thing, thank you, and if there are any questions feel free to ask.
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Most of my relationships were bad or worse all because I simply did not know how to make a relationship work (bad parenting) so I finally had to get into therapy and learned some good relationship skills (google it) to make a relationship work which is why my current wife and I have been pretty happy for a very long time. I had to undo the stupid garbage from my family and re-learn how to be: kind, empathetic, patient, affectionate, respectful, HONEST, polite, helpful and a few other things and then my relationships became much better. The therapy helped too in overcoming a huge array of emotional problems I had thanks to lousy parenting. Things are pretty good now! good luck