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Old 13-08-2018, 08:10 PM
olhosdeamendoa olhosdeamendoa is offline
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Originally Posted by Cleo the cat
I get the feeling you want to know where you stand and have that honest conversation. Why not ask him out? Take the ball out of his court - so to speak. Say something like; "We've been chatting for a while now, are we going for that dinner then?"

His behaviour after that would clarify things for you. At least then you could end it with a friendly "Well I hoped we might go on that date, but I guess thats not what you want"

Your situation sounds a little different to mine. This guy I met would go hot then cold, but still stringing me along - none the less.

Yes, this guy doesn't go hot then cold, he is quite consistent.

Yes I could do that, or simply ask him "hey do you still want to reschedule that dinner"?

It's just that I feel he's avoiding it, and I hate to chase people, especially when they don't act as they said they would, know what I mean?
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