I get the feeling you want to know where you stand and have that honest conversation. Why not ask him out? Take the ball out of his court - so to speak. Say something like; "We've been chatting for a while now, are we going for that dinner then?"
His behaviour after that would clarify things for you. At least then you could end it with a friendly "Well I hoped we might go on that date, but I guess thats not what you want"
Your situation sounds a little different to mine. This guy I met would go hot then cold, but still stringing me along - none the less.
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