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If you're feeling a pull to Hades, why not make some libations to him? Wine, milk or honey are the traditional offerings (besides black lambs, which you might have a hard time disposing of
). Initiating a reciprocal relationship is the way to build a connection.
And just as an aside, Artemis would be your 'patroness' not your matron. A matron is a mature motherly women, while a patroness is a woman who patrons a client or place.