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Originally Posted by 7luminaries
Your own suggestions sound wonderful...and you're very welcome!
Be sure to set your own boundaries in spirit regarding the sort of energy and messages you won't accept...that's very important re: the messages as well and I wish I'd done that years ago.
For example, I'll no longer tolerate any messages or undercurrent (unspoken message) of resentment, of casting me as burdensome or unworthy somehow...none of that.
And I basically ignored this for years because I didn't know how to draw my boundaries in this way. Hope this helps.
Much love & light to you!
Peace & blessings 
7L |
Thanks for the love and light (I need it!) and kind words.
Thank goodness for you wonderful people here, I don't know what state I'd be in without you
Yes, I know now that I MUST work on my boundaries... this is really, really important. I dissociated nearly all my life, ending last year when this thing happened. Now I'm as defenseless as a child. And so optimistic, so naive! I have to learn to be more mature now.
Thanks for the strategies you've suggested - I now know what I have to do. The journey has only just begun (and I hope to goodness that was the hard bit!!!!)