[A human Being]

Originally Posted by Baile

If she is crying herself to sleep each night, I would say it's past the point of going deeper into it. Time to do something practical and health-giving. Time to address it and transform it and heal it.

I get the impression the OP's still fighting the feeling, hence why she can't get over it. To 'go deeper' means to give up resistance, and the sense I get is that she still is in resistance. Something like counselling still might be a good option for her, it might help her to come to terms with it.