Well, I'm sure glad I'm not
my emotions!
Can I share what my place is and it may be of interest to your Path?
First, before anything else it was to have a deep
connection to the Divine (of any Name)...and, thus, peace and happiness.
Once that is made everything else falls into place!
The basic horse before the cart formula, haha.
I followed the teachings of the Masters and each step is pretty
darn guaranteed
...as in ...
Seek the Kingdom of God or Heaven and all else will come.
Note: You can seek other things...but seek that 'first'..ha!
Another is
Follow your Bliss by Joseph Campbell....or
Don't worry, be happy!- Meher Baba
It's what I did.
And so far so good.