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Gemini, there are some hard truths you will have to face, in order to get out of your current predicament.
If you have never been in a relationship, it gets harder, the older you get. That is just the way nature works, unfortunately. Like most things, dating and meeting people is a skill, if you have never done it, you probably suck at it.
That's ok, you just have to admit that to yourself and be upfront and honest about it with men you might meet. The easiest way to overcome that is to start dating, so set yourself up on some dating sites and start going on dates even if the men you meet aren't up to scratch. It doesn't matter, you just need to practice and get your confidence up. Once your confidence increases, men will notice you more and you will start getting better dates with higher quality men, but you have to start somewhere. Eventually, chances are, you will meet the right one for you.
Also, you might need to get out of your comfort zone a bit, look further afield, perhaps even abroad, travel a bit if you can, force yourself into new situations and experiences, such as classes or courses. It isn't rocket science, but you have to start doing it, with no expectations as to the outcome, just doing it for its own sake, to get some practice and build confidence.
Good luck,
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