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Originally Posted by Silver
I've been aware of the media's pushy tactics since I first picked up the Cosmo magazines - when I was a teen. The supersonic speed of seduction to feel and belief and even act like that is mind-blowing.
I don't appreciate their efforts. Yet, as young one, I poured over those pages. fwiw
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I was being a bit dramatic for effect, hahaha....please forgive ;)
But in all seriousness...
I completely agree.
It's loathesome and tiresome to see headlines and bits ad nauseam geared toward very young women and even 30somethings, etc., on how to have better sex and please your man...as after all, this is what's really important and after all, this is what you're valued for, right?
Nothing on how loads of earnestly pimping yourself out for casual sex in a naive and earnest attempt to "please men" will virtually never lead to love. In fact, what mainstream culture and media all say and what they promote is EXACTLY the opposite
Blatant 180° intentional misdirection.
Aside from harming and misdirecting a lot of women, especially the very young women, the cultural overlay of lies and misdirection also harms and misdirects men. It leads many men to a place of confusion and misunderstanding regarding women.
As a result of the cultural overlay designed to misdirect and enslave otherwise free men via sex, porn, and/or other addictions...and to exploit and use women, particularly young and naive women...we are all heavily misinformed and misdirected by our culture in ways and on a scale completely unknown to humanity since the dawn of time on Gaia.
As a result, men don't typically understand that period of innocent sexual availability some women will go through in search of fulfilling their need for children and connection with a mate in order to have children. And they don't understand that this period (prior to having kids & otherwise reaching the Age of Maturity) pretty much ends at that time. Women find their voice, and/or their feet, and they begin to live from the centre more truly. It is the way of our broadly universal soul cycle in these human incarnations.
But likewise as a result, most women also don't understand men at ALL, and thus they are largely ignorant as to the way men view and have been taught to view women. Finding they are not highly regarded or esteemed aside from their sexual availability and perhaps also their appearance comes as an eternal shock to women, particularly once they've got to know a man and yet find he still has little regard for them and has little energy to care for her thoughts and opinions (particularly if they differ from his). EVEN IF they've been shagging in order to please him whilst he "sees how it goes" and so forth, LOL.
Despite my dry British humour, LOL...I do put the lion's share of the blame on mainstream culture, the likes of which has never been around prior to the last half century or so, not for all of humanity's recorded history back 10 or 15K years perhaps at most, pre-flood. I do not put the lion's share of it on genes. That simply won't cut it. Even in dire times, loads of folks refuse to kill or rape or steal what another needs to eat. Even though we all have survival urges or instincts. They NEVER override our hearts and minds and ability to choose UNLESS we allow them to do so. Unless we have decided to live as something lower than animals, who are innocent and lack that ability to choose.
As WStein quoted in another thread, the matrix cannot tell us who we are. WE decide who we are
We've got a lot of work to do, one person at a time, one person to another, one heart to another.
Peace & blessings
7L