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Originally Posted by cheeneka
HI
that is strange........synchronicity, I was brought up in an orphanage, then a terrible foster family...........our childhood can define us if we let it.............we are either a victim or a survivor...........don't let it define you. Throw out every burden that it brings to you..........forgive it.....forgive yourself and let it all burn away in the flames of the violet flame. :)
LOve cheeneka x
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i can relate to that. ever since i met my TF, things have been changing so much. I suddenly access information from my past I was always aware of, just haven't been able to properly connect to why my life turned the way it did. practically all the limitations I brought with myself to every single relation I had can be traced back to my childhood traumas. I can chose between hating my parents or being grateful that at least now I understand why I behaved in certain ways and try and change that. too bad I didn't realize many of these things before meeting him...maybe things would be different than