[John Smith1013]

Hi, for the past months, I’ve very sincerely asked for help and guidance on my past relationship (about my ex) and I have literally got the same sign and message for months - it all said that I need to change my point of view on how things are, I’m not looking at the bigger picture. And a very recent sign I keep getting said that sometimes all we can do is just wait for the other person to have clarity. I got this sign after I asked the angels and higher powers and God on what I should do in this situation.

Now let me do a quick explanation, my ex and I broke up on very bad terms. It wasn’t like we were screaming and insulting each other, more like she gave me a very very cruel reason to break up. And we haven’t spoke since then. So ever since I have been asking for help and clarity on this situation, and I hate her for doing this to me. The hate is so strong I had to turn to the angels.

So now I have gotten the message from them, it makes me even more confused. What other point of view is there? I have LITERALLY thought of every reason and possibility as to why she might done this. But still I’m getting signs and messages saying I need to change my point of view. How? Does that mean I should stop hating her so much? What is the bigger picture? And by telling me that I need to wait for her to wake up to her mistakes (I’m guessing that’s what it meant) how am I supposed to look at the bigger picture? How does this all connect?

Any help or just simple advice/opinion would be GREATLY appreciated. Because you never know when someone’s simple answer is the truth :). Again thank you. I just feel like I’m missing something here and the angels keep hinting at me but I’m just not getting it at all.

By the way I have also gotten strong signs that I will end up being with her, I just don’t know how am I supposed to look at things the way the angels want me to. If anyone was in my situation they would’ve hate her as much as I do.

There really isn’t any excuse on what she did - NONE. And let me be honest with you, there’s no way I can EVER forgive her on that. NEVER.

I should also include that everytime I think of good and warm and uplifting thoughts about her, and thoughts like I’m gonna be with her in the end, and what I’m going through right now will be in the past, I instantly start seeing angel numbers. It’s not even a thought it’s more like my subconscious, I didn’t even know that’s what I was thinking, but since people said that you should pay attention to your thoughts before you see angel numbers and signs I realized that that’s what I was thinking just seconds before seeing the numbers.

Also I’ve been receiving signs saying that the answer to what I’m looking for isn’t a simple yes or no, it’s neutral, the answer lies in between and I have to think broader. How do you interpret this?

Again thank you so much. I just need some help.