Jaycee, thank you from the bottom of my heart for this post, not just for its content but for the fact that it is written in plain, down-to-earth, unpatronising English!
Recently I've become a bit disillusioned with some of the psycho babble on here, so your post has restored some of my lost enthusiasm
I shall return to this thread many times, no doubt, to fully digest what you've laid out.
Thanks again for your explanation.
Love and Light,