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Originally Posted by sky123
Desires are like wishes but attachment to the desires are when your wishes don't come true and cause you suffering/unsatisfaction.
We all have desires it's a normal part of life, desire motivates people, but there are positive/negative desires also. Unrealistic desires cause misery/suffering and more. I think and have found that if my desires/wishes don't become fulfilled then it's best to accept this and move on without attachment. Clinging to the ' why not ' causes more suffering.
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i know clinging to desire which was not fulfilled is painful.but some times clinging is not in controll.some times no desire but illusion also worry people