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Originally Posted by ssdm1
Sounds like you ended on good terms. I would send him a friendly "thinking of you' text or email, just to check in.
I stopped contacting mine and decades went by with no contact. Then 2 years ago we got in touch again and it's been great. We missed so much in each others lives by one or the other holding back on contact and we won't get that missed time back.
So go ahead, contact him!!
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If I may add to that... although in hindsight you may feel you missed so much, this break likely helped you both to really let go over time and really move on with your lives separately and to let go of hope and expectation.
Would you have been able to do that at that time when staying in touch? (Just wondering, not trying to be a wise-@$$)
The OP is now crying again and thinking of him all the time again. Likely way too soon to be able to maintain a friendship connection the way you and your TF are able to.