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Originally Posted by Nameless
Question: I would like to know why I never got any real closure from the last person I truly ever loved which has therefore prevented me from fully moving on while they are in a happy relationship with someone new – thank you.
Answer: (from Seth)
Things of this nature take time. Time is a concept in the human realm that is not really understood. You have what I call psychological time. Time expands at your request, if you allow that it can. So, say you are getting ready to go to work in the morning, as this one does periodically and she’s rushing, rushing, rushing and she’s feeling like she is going to be late, she will remember sometimes to stop and pause and ask for psychological time, and tell herself that she will get to work on time.
It doesn’t always mean that she gets to work exactly on the moment she’s supposed to. It means that when she gets there no one cares that she’s a few minutes late. So there is a difference between the time on your clock and psychological time.
When you are in the process of reclaiming something that you have given to someone else, you are collecting those parts of yourself that you’ve given away freely, out of love or whatever, and calling your energy back to yourself. You can do this easily if you choose by simply stating the intention, getting quiet, and asking yourself, your inner being, to allow that those parts of yourself that you gave away unintentionally - you didn’t mean to give your energy away just the emotion of the love - so you are asking your inner being to bring the energetic parts of yourself back into the whole of you.
Sit with this after you have given the intention – be quiet, breathe, relax, and just allow that these parts of you that you energetically gave away, the energy’s coming back to you, it is your energy, it is returning to you. Doing this will free up something in your being that was stuck in this emotion.
This is a very pleasant exercise to do periodically. It actually allows you to feel whole within yourself, whole within your own energy pattern, and humans tend to give away their energy unknowing, unintentionally and it helps to bring it back to you. Sometimes you get back energy that you gave away many, many years ago.
So if you are looking at a loved one that you feel like you’ve lost and they - you look at them and they look like they are doing quite well without you, part of it is the energy that you have given away. Another part of you is looking to fill your soul with your connection to your inner being. So this is another process to connection to your inner being, to allow your inner being to fill you, to realize that you have this connection to your soul. Your soul is inside you, only a part of you became physical, so when you connect to your inner being, and allow it to fill you, it loves you unconditionally and there is no greater love you could ever find. So if you are feeling a lack of love in your life, this will help with that.
How to connect to your inner being is something that is individual. It can be a process, it can be a journey, it can take 2 minutes, it could take 2 years, it’s whatever time frame you allow that it will take. If you want it, you have to ask for it and then step out of the way of it and allow it and one day you will be sitting and you will feel like your body’s tingling from head to toe, all the cells of your body will wake up. Its something, if you’ve never felt it, it will – may – be very pleasant, it certainly feels loving, you can sit in it however long you like, you can bask in it, but that is the connection with your inner being.
When you connect to your inner being a lot of your -troubles you might say - seem not to be so important anymore. Your inner being knows what you want, it has all of your answers for you. So to deliberately connect to it, to that part of yourself, is something of great value.
This will help you to find that answer to your question.
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