There is only one thing which you shall know, and that is:
"Whatever happens in the material world, was first scripted in the spiritual" / on daily basis, (maybe often).
So, the material world represents only the Flame of the Matchstick.
When the flame is gone, You are deciding what shall happen next.
But, when you are in the Material world, it is you, that is 'acting out' and you are as "Actor" of everyone.
here is
America's Got Talent - The Clairvoyants Youtube video.