Thank you Ladyterra. I am also sorry for your loss. 5 years may seem a long time to some but I bet you still hear his voice in your head every day and miss him. After reading your answer, I realize that maybe she is communicating with me already and I just haven't realized it.

Thank you as well, Belle. (hey that rhymed :) I am sorry for your Grandparents loss and I believe your comment about being emotionally open to communication will be very helpful. I had not even thought about that.