Wows... And now a thread intended to pay respect to a religious holiday has not only degraded into bashing how it is celebrated but it has also likened us to devil worshipers.
...very disheartening.
On a secondary note, if people were universally required to slaughter their own food we as a species would likely consume a lot less meat.
People become far more removed from the actual animal by purchasing their meat in the market.
As for Shadow, I happen to know he has a remarkable capacity to connect to animals they are quite drawn to him and develop almost an instant kinship. If you ever heard him talk about his pet it's evident he loves her like a child.
I fell in love with her just listening to him.
His big heart and need to care for others (animals included) has to be the single most beautiful thing about him.
I can't help but feel you two have perhaps too much angst towards one another.
It's unfortunate as it seems deep down you are likely both very caring, compassionate... Albeit passionately opinionated people.