[Jeremy Bong]

I listen the same story of loving theory over and over again in this forum. But I can't feel what he sows as the expected loving from the narrator. What I feel is self esteemed but be opinionated自以为是. And I more prefer to see the situation or condition at the moment of incident. But not self-betrayal or self-exposure 自我暴露to be at a dangerous zone(battlefield or warfare). And avoiding flaunt夸耀 of one's misleading sentiment (情感的)观点or "truth". And the indulgence of the wrong "loving" philosophy 错爱may get increasely involved insensitively and be unable to extricate oneself 越陷越深，无法自拔.