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Old 07-06-2019, 01:15 AM
illced illced is offline
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I won't go so far as to say I'm completely unhinged and wear my emotions on my sleeves, but I do try to be authentic toward those I'm in contact with. Thankfully, I'm very much at peace with my surroundings.

Working in customer service for years, I've realized how imperative it is to become centered, prior to stepping in. Everyone's morning ritual is different (and many choose to forego one), and in many instances, doesn't always take place in the morning.

'Centeredness', in large part, require I square myself away and overprepare for any potential curveballs that can take place throughout the course of the day, that can throw off my center.

There is much to be learned by enlightened masters past-and-present, and I try my best to exude this calm and stoic demeanor at my base. Coating this base is my personal twist that creates individuality.

When all is said and done, my intent is to give off high, positive vibrations, and this can come effortlessly by keeping my house in order on a consistent basis, day-in and day-out.

I think all of us can attest to the fact we all encounter toxic individuals on a lower vibration -- their house oftentime in disarray -- and it can sometimes be a challenge to rearrange their setting while in their midst.

Their rearrangement can oftentime arrive just by exuding oneself's positive vibration. These positive vibrations are best coupled with high intelligence, productivity and discernment, as positivity combined with dumbfoundedness can often lead to their opportunisms.

In today's maelstrom and crossfire, it has become 'sexy' as-of-late to be non-PC. Many see this as opportunity to be completely unhinged in various systems and get away with it.

I know that if I am to receive customer service, I wouldn't want the employee completely unhinged to the extent service is lacking to any degree -- especially if I, the customer, is centered prior-to.

This isn't to say the non-PC crowd isn't productive or lacking leadership; but their example is causing others, in many instances, to create higher incidences of collateral damage, than if not.

In the end, it makes sense to work toward oneself's highest intent, but in doing such, shouldn't be means to completely let go in a fume of negativity, at the slightest agitations, during interactions -- despite how 'sexy' the mainstream makes it out to be.
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