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Curious. What did the therapist suggest you do?( you don't have to share).

Could be you need closure of some sort. An author to look into is Carlyon Myss and her topics on sacred contracts. Basically, cutting lose baggage from the past.

Lastly, there could be a possibility of karmic/past life ties. If you read up on that area ( karmic relationships) it's worth looking into. Although, I personally dont feel it should encourage or give a reason to tolerate a person who is not a good fit you. It just may help give you a better understanding of why you have a 'connection' to this person.

Good luck