I would venture to say that I view genes as I do astorilogy.

It's kind of like driving around with a bunch of friends. Brain, planetary influence, family/friends influence, and genes. Almost all like back seat drivers. They want to drive but can only make a lot of suggestions. It's still up to you true self on which way you're steering the vehicle.

It's all up to the driver how the relationship is. Some people are always arguing almost as if there's too many chiefs and not enough Indians. Some are having a blast and efficiently co-piloting without much thought.