I have a partner and we are both manifesting and attracting different things or in more simpler better words, we think and believe differently which makes us react to things different or interpret things differently which leads to different out comes and experiences for us which effects each other so I understand what you are trying to say and it can often times get very frustrating where you then try and tell your partner to think more this way or act more this way or believe in this or "stay more positive so we can be on the same path of manifesting a better life"...In all honesty....DOESN'T WORK. What I have noticed and I hope this helps in some way, is be a beacon of inspiration. When people have something to be inspired by or see others achieving, that can often times "rub off" on them and it makes them want to start manifesting more and greater things for their life also. Hope this helps