I understand.
Of course just like life, we must be careful as to what we decide
to allow to become a part of us. Don't look at it as pass or fail.
If you receive something from Spirit, you can always learn from it.
Consider it slowly if possible and if you can not make
heads or tails from something, let it simmer in prayer if time allows.

I have at times learnt the most by making bad decisions.

So it is always good to make decisions with the Creator
and trusting it will all work out for the GOOD.

I think of my Heart as my control center, and the Heart needs training.
Also guarding. I know in my life that was first lived in dis-function and trauma,
my Heart was the area most effected and so there were many things
that [we] needed to uproot and discard.
So today I can let situations settle in my Heart and see how they feel or
how my body reacts, or my Heart will tell the brain some direction to investigate,
none of this is clear cut, in my experience.

Practice and relationship with Creator builds trust as we walk our path.
Try to stay in Peace and Joy about it all.
Hope some of my ramblings can be useful.