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Originally Posted by Estelwen
Ghosting, never heard of that term before. But yeah I relate. Only thing really you can do is just try to move on. To be honest, in my own experience I thought to myself "why would I even desire to be with someone who clearly wants nothing to do with me?" It's just not worth it, so I shut the emotions off and got on with my life.
You can cause yourself pain over this all or just accept what's not meant to be. And give yourself time to mourn, too. In my case I'd already had plenty of time to mourn so I'd gotten to that point of "enough's enough". I was done. And now I would never go back to him even if the whole TF thing with the stages of running and separation and reunion turned out to be legitimate. That ship sailed long ago.
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yeah it's hard because if it was anyone else I wouldnt give it a second thought. I don't know why I can't just accept reality.
How do you shut off emotions?
xx:)