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Old 14-09-2013, 09:49 PM
Moonstar84 Moonstar84 is offline
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Starbuck, thanks, have Pmed you back. :)

Like you say, humans are social animals, so I suppose it's natural to want someone to be with. When people talk about being whole and complete in yourself, it can make you feel as if there's something wrong with you. At least that's how I feel sometimes. Thanks for explaining your definition of being whole. :) I think it's a good idea to find fulfillment by yourself and if you feel good about who you are, you will be able to cope with life better.

Spectrum, I can see why being addicted to porn could hold you back from finding a relationship because it could give you unrealistic expectations or mean you view women in a certain way that's not necessarily the reality. I didn't know that porn and masturbation were related to depression. I suppose comparing yourself to the men in porn films could make you feel inadequate (same for women comparing themselves), like looking at pictures of attractive people in magazines.
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