Hey there :)
No, Daz...I would have to disagree. No one loves others "all the same".
Each love in each moment, thing, or person is unique to that moment, thing or soul --
and each possesses a different and unique texture and shape, so to speak.
What IS the same is the potential to bring one's full capacity to each moment.
And THAT sameness is the foundation of love to manifest and express.
There is no other sameness to be had anywhere, other than God's constancy of manifesting infinite diversity in each moment.
There is not only self unless you mean the Creator Self.
There is an infinity of diversity of existence and of individuated consciousness and sentience.
Since we are of God, we can become one with God but we are not God.
We are of God in our individuated expression, just as all other life is...and we are conscious co-creators the moment we become of aware of this reality.
However, we can experience the reality of interbeing...and we can come to know that all love is an experience of interbeing.
Through connecting personalistically (from the soul) with our unique, individuated self, we can experience the love of all.
From experiencing the love of all as interbeing, we can come to know or apprehend all that is.
Peace and blessings Teddy
7L/Amanda