I have been following this thread. hi.
I just watched a very good documentary on Awareness and going beyond thought.
It was very well done, at a point in the movie they are talking about loss. One of the first human emotions of loss is to feel grief, it's a natural part of human awareness, and comes from the enlightened mind and basic awareness. Then our mind and emotions move in and we feel all kinds of emotions that create suffering. However, grieving is a natural part of loss, for many people after the grieving has been long past we cling to our suffering. We go on suffering way past the end of our grief process, it's our inability to let go.
Reminded me of the Robin losing its eggs to the BlueJay. It moved on, I wonder if it felt any grief. Perhaps that's what makes a human different from a bird.
Anyway, take a look, thought I would share this..
https://topdocumentaryfilms.com/beyond-thought/