Religious people ask God to help them deal with life difficulties.
Whereas spiritualists look to themselves: self-examination, meditation, etc.
Some people go to a counselor and engage in talk therapy.
Some just escape through drugs and alcohol.
Those are the options, it's a matter of choosing one.
You say you don't know what to do about life being a mess.
Finding fault with others won't get you anywhere.
And your annoyance is yours to deal with, not anyone else's.